Marriage and Family Therapist, M.A., Associate Marriage and Family Therapist
Do you struggle to get out of your own head? Do people say, "you're too hard on yourself"? Is there a role you're afraid to apply for, a relationship you're afraid to pursue, or a leap you're hesitant to take? Building self-esteem is not about accomplishing more "to do's" on your checklist--that only builds situational confidence. Building self-esteem is really about removing the beliefs and blockages that keep you from experiencing your intrinsic value. Simply put, (like the statue of David) it's not about adding, it's about removing. Together we will explore what has led to the lack of self-esteem and work to get remove the beliefs that keep you from feeling confident and fulfilled.
We all have a negative belief of self that connects to our experiences in the past affecting how we function in the present. Understanding what is under the surface of these dysfunctional thoughts can help us overcome the negative beliefs that can make it difficult to thrive. My hope is to help people improve their self worth and feel empowered to thrive in any situation.
I specialize in the transformative journey of self-esteem building. With a genuine passion for empowering individuals, I offer a wealth of expertise in fostering positive self-image, self-worth, and self-compassion. Through a variety of tailored activities, I guide clients in discovering and embracing their unique strengths. Together, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, building a foundation of confidence and resilience. I am dedicated to creating a warm and supportive space for individuals to flourish in their quest for a healthier and more positive self-esteem.
Finding time and space to feel competent, confident, and proud of ourselves is critical to our wellbeing. Let's explore your interests, hobbies, and passions to discover what builds your self-esteem and how we can find space for more of that in your life.
How does self esteem relate to feelings of depression and anxiety?
What you belief about yourself is often derogatory even though psychologists estimate that over 90% of your beliefs are unconscious and that most of your unconscious beliefs were created as a result of thoughts that you were positively and negatively programmed to believe.
I focus on establishing a balance of self-esteem. Low self esteem can lead to depression, or abusive/toxic situations and relationships. High self-esteem can lead to a sense of entitlement and inability to learn from failure.
Self-esteem and self-worth can often be old negative beliefs and narratives that have been repeated over time by others and with your internal dialogue. Learning self-compassion and practicing the nurture of self-care can help to create a different and more loving relationship with yourself.
Self Esteem affects almost every aspect of our lives, and there’s no reason that you have to suffer from it anymore. Changes in your habits of thinking or reacting can radically improve your experience and make a new life possible.