Through gentle techniques social stresses can be understood and managed. Common coping mechanisms such as avoidance or alcohol can be replaced with healthier choices.
Being seen is tough as is feeling invisible. The world forces us into being in environments where there are other people. In therapy to learn why this feel weird and navigate life more easily.
Psychologist, Consultant Clinical Psychologist (HCPC registered), PhD, MSc, MSc, MSc, MA (Econ), BA (Econ) Hons
Human beings are not the only social animal, but our ability to interact with other people is a critical factor in our lives and thereby our sense of wellbeing. Social anxiety arises for many different reasons-- sometimes as a result of difficult experiences during our upbringing, resulting in low self-esteem, for example. In recent times the temptation to compare ourselves to others has been distorted by cultural phenomena such as social media. We are constantly bombarded by images of success, beauty, attainment, wealth, and so on that we can never hope to achieve. This creates an unrealistic sense of worth and worthlessness that sometimes causes us to isolate ourselves even further. Psychological counselling can help evaluate who we really are, what we want to achieve, and how we can do this. In my experience the most effective treatment is an evaluation of the root causes of social anxiety in my clients. I then design a specific coaching program to enable my clients to engage with the social world.
I have lots of previous experience supporting clients with social anxiety. Social anxiety is becoming a more & more common issue with people, but it can be relieved & softened by talking about it, understanding it & using Cognitive Behavioral Therapeutic techniques to mitigate those tricky to shift thought patterns.
Living with social anxiety can feel like an ongoing battle, impacting your ability to connect and thrive. I've worked with numerous clients facing the intricate challenges social anxiety presents. Our sessions offer a secure space for you to confront your fears head-on, delving into the underlying issues that trigger anxious feelings in social settings. Together, we'll develop tailored strategies aimed at easing your discomfort, enhancing your communication skills, and bolstering your self-confidence. Ultimately, the work aims to lessen the grip of social anxiety, enabling more meaningful interactions and a richer life experience.
All of our Clinical Psychologists at ComposurePsychology are highly experienced in helping people understand, manage and overcome social anxiety, fears, nervousness, worry and panic. We draw from evidence based therapies including; CBT, ACT, CFT, SFT, DBT, EMDR, systemic, narrative, psychodynamic and others.
Many of us feel socially awkward at points in our life. Perhaps we were told we were 'shy' as children, or have always struggled to make friends. This can leave us feeling isolated and lonely and we may tell ourselves that we are weird, different or simply do not know how to interact with others. The feelings and experiences associated with not fitting in, saying the wrong things or not being able to socialise can be devastating. I will work with you to look at your experience and how you speak to yourself as a way of understanding how you may impact others, allowing for a different way of being in the world.