I work with couples to help them grieve the loss of a "regular pregnancy". There are many emotions that come with this, and being able to talk about them and work through them together, will be important as you go through this difficult period in your life, but also in years to come.
Helping women navigate the devastation around their circumstances or unpredictability of the fertility journey. As a result, you may be experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety or both. Together we will work to uncover the root causes behind your experiences, thoughts and feelings, to provide you with concrete, practical tools you can use to cope during these difficult times.
Looking for a child can be a very stressful experience, especially if it is taking too long and there are results. Finding out there are fertility concerns or problems for either of the parents can add more stress and affect our emotions as well as the relationship with our partner. Discussing options and going through different scenarios according to our core values and life goals plan ca be a very helpful experience, reducing the amount of stress in the process of becoming a parent.
I did my Master's research on the experience of infertility. Its impact on a person's life and relationship is enormous. Learning how to navigate through the unrecognized grief and loss is critical for healing. I have spoken and written articles on infertility and adoption. I am an adoptive parent and it is important to recognize that adoption is NOT a cure for infertility. Unresolved infertility can in fact sabotage the bonding relationship with an adopted child. I would be honoured to work with any couple on this important issue which can destroy a relationship, but can also enhance it if the issue is worked through.