In our quest for emotional well-being, intrusive thoughts often emerge as formidable obstacles, disrupting our inner peace and affecting our self-perception. These unwelcome visitors seem to appear out of nowhere, triggered by stress or deep-rooted beliefs. However, understanding and managing these thoughts is pivotal in reclaiming control over our mental landscape and fostering personal growth.…
In a world where digital devices are an extension of our hands, it’s becoming increasingly common for individuals to experience ‘phubbing’ – the act of snubbing someone in favor of a mobile phone. This seemingly innocuous habit is not just a social faux pas; it has deeper implications, particularly in intimate relationships. Phubbing can silently…
If you’ve been through or witnessed a traumatic event, it may have led to a variety of cognitive, behavioral and physiological symptoms like flashbacks, avoidance, nightmares, and intense anxiety. These are all characteristic traits of the psychological condition called Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Many mental health professionals and various treatment guidelines emphasize CBT or Cognitive Behavioural…
FIRST: The Inner Child (IC) is the repository of all our childhood experiences, from birth until we left that environment – our memories, emotions & immature thinking. It includes our True Self, which did show up in some ways, but was mostly suppressed or distorted. Our IC now holds all our own wounds PLUS the wounds…
No one is perfect and no parent is perfect. Therefore, parents are going to make mistakes when they are raising their children. There is no reason to make a big issue about a mistake. The parents should learn from their mistake and hopefully this will improve their parenting skills. When 17 or 18 year old…
Teen drug addiction is a serious problem in our Country. Many parents assume they only need to worry about their teens in high school. However, this sadly is not the truth in today’s world. Many children in middle school are vaping and using Percocet and fentanyl. Therefore, we need to start drug education in elementary…
Low self-confidence can cast a dark shadow over our lives, diminishing joy and blocking our potential. As a therapist specializing in emotional wellness, I understand the profound impact this can have. However, it’s important to know that with the right strategies and guidance, you can reclaim your inner strength and step into a life filled…
Childhood is often perceived as a time of innocence and joy, ideally surrounded by safe and loving caregivers, but for many individuals, it can also be marked by experiences of fear, isolation, and trauma. Childhood trauma can involve a range of adverse events, including abuse, neglect, household dysfunction, addicted or mentally ill caregivers, and witnessing…
Understanding Cognitive Changes in Seniors As individuals age, their cognitive functions often undergo significant changes. These changes can vary greatly from person to person, but some common patterns are frequently observed. One of the most notable changes is a general slowing of cognitive processes, which can affect memory, attention, and problem-solving abilities. Seniors might…
Are life’s challenges causing you overwhelming stress, making it difficult to navigate everyday emotions? You’re not alone. Stress accumulates gradually, affecting our ability to cope with daily life and leaving us feeling stretched thin. But there are effective ways to reclaim your inner peace and vitality. As a Mindfulness-Based Counselling Hypnotherapist in Victoria, B.C., I’m…