Attachment theory, first developed by John Bowlby, focuses on the behaviours infants use to stay close to their caregivers and ensure their survival. Bowlby proposed that actions such as crying, clinging, and seeking proximity to a caregiver are evolutionary mechanisms that enhance an infant’s chances of survival by keeping them close to their primary caregiver. […]
I’ve been noticing a welcome trend these days – more and more men are coming for counselling. It seems like men are getting interested in learning more about themselves, in getting aligned with their values and with forming deeper more meaningful relationships – and are reaching out to counselling to help them reach these goals. […]
The holiday season often stirs up complex emotions, especially for those who find it hard to align their experiences with the cheerful imagery of togetherness and joy. From a psychodynamic perspective, this time of year can bring long-buried feelings to the surface. The pressure to connect with family or meet societal expectations of holiday cheer […]
The Art of Letting Go: Moving Forward With Intention and Grace Letting go. It sounds simple, yet it can be one of the most challenging acts in life. Whether it’s a relationship, a job, a dream, or even a version of yourself, the decision to release something that no longer serves you requires courage, clarity, […]
Dreams have long fascinated thinkers and psychologists, leading to various theories about their purpose and significance. Some view them as random brain activity, while others, such as Sigmund Freud, believe they reveal repressed desires. Carl Jung, however, took a different perspective. He considered dreams to be a crucial link to the unconscious mind, offering vital […]
Boundaries: Taking Control of What You Do Boundaries are an essential part of a healthy, balanced life. They are not about controlling what others do or say; instead, boundaries are about what you do to take charge of your own actions and choices. When you set boundaries, you define what is acceptable for you and […]
Setting Boundaries: A Roadmap to Healthier Relationships When you hear the words therapy or mental health, you might think about managing anxiety, dealing with depression, or overcoming past trauma. But one of the most practical and impactful skills you can gain through counseling is learning to set healthy boundaries. Boundaries are about knowing where you […]
At Dorfen Health Services, I specialize in helping couples uncover the deeper truths beneath their relationship struggles. Too often, couples find themselves stuck in repetitive arguments, miscommunication, or growing emotional distance. The key to breaking these cycles? Real and honest conversations in a safe and supportive environment. Couples therapy is not about assigning blame—it’s about […]
At Dorfen Health Services, we understand that past trauma doesn’t just shape your memories—it can impact your emotions, relationships, and overall mental health in profound ways. That’s why taking a trauma-informed approach is at the heart of what we do. Whether you’re navigating the pain of a past event or struggling with its ongoing effects, […]
Thanksgiving is a time of gratitude, family, and… stress? Let’s be honest—while the holiday season brings joy, it can also come with its own set of challenges. From dodging awkward family conversations to managing food hangovers, Thanksgiving can feel like a marathon instead of a holiday. But fear not! Here’s a light-hearted, fun guide from […]
