Saying “No” From Love As a therapist, one of the most frequent challenges I encounter with my clients is the difficulty they have in saying “no.” This simple, two-letter word can carry a tremendous weight, evoking fears of rejection, conflict, or disappointment. Yet, learning to say “no” is not about distancing ourselves from others or […]
Divorce is a life-changing event that can leave men feeling overwhelmed, isolated, and unsure of how to move forward. The emotional, mental, and physical toll of divorce is real—and often overlooked. From processing the profound sense of loss to navigating new routines and relationships, it’s a challenging journey that requires thoughtful guidance and support. As […]
Active imagination, a technique developed by Carl Jung, serves as a core method in analytical psychology for engaging with the unconscious. Jung viewed it as a pathway to achieving personal wholeness by unlocking latent aspects of the psyche. Unlike dreams, where the unconscious communicates in a passive, unidirectional way, active imagination allows the conscious mind […]
Understanding People-Pleasing People-pleasing is the habit of putting others’ needs, feelings, and desires above your own, often sacrificing personal well-being to maintain harmony or gain approval. While people-pleasers often have the best intentions, chronic self-neglect and a need to be liked or validated can lead to stress, anxiety, and a weakened sense of self. A […]
Parents often face the daunting task of managing their own emotions and guiding their children through the complex terrain of feelings, especially anger. Seeing your child angry can be stressful and trigger negative responses. However, mastering the art of self-regulation and adopting effective strategies to deal with your child’s anger can transform these challenging […]
During the holiday season there are often many expectations for socializing, shopping, eating and spending time with family. While some of these activities can feel joyful, others might be emotionally or logistically difficult and unrealistic. Time management becomes more complicated, stress increases and self-care may be forgotten. Pay attention to feeling physically unwell, emotionally overwhelmed […]
Relationships can be a source of profound joy and fulfillment. Still, they can also be challenging, mainly when one or both partners are dealing with psychological complexities such as Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). RSD is a condition often associated with ADHD but can occur in others as well, characterized by an extreme emotional sensitivity […]
People-pleasing is the habit of putting others’ needs, feelings, and desires above one’s own, often sacrificing personal well-being to maintain harmony or gain approval. While people-pleasers often have the best intentions, chronic self-neglect and a need to be liked or validated can lead to stress, anxiety, and a weakened sense of self. A key aspect […]
At first glance, comparison might seem like a helpful motivator. After all, seeing someone succeed or achieve something amazing can inspire us to aim higher, push harder, or explore new paths. It can even give us a short-term boost — a feeling of confidence or satisfaction if we measure up or even surpass others in […]
Imagine walking into a space where you’re truly accepted for who you are—no judgments, no pressure to be perfect, just pure acceptance. This is what we call *unconditional positive regard* in counseling, and it’s at the heart of every good therapy relationship. What is Unconditional Positive Regard? Unconditional positive regard is a fancy way of […]
