Anger Management therapists in Nairn, Scotland Scotland, United Kingdom GB
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Anger Management
Debbie Debonaire
Counsellor/Therapist, BA Hons, IMTTA, Heartmath Coach
Anger management, also known as Anger Management Therapy, is a specialised form of psychotherapy that focuses on helping individuals control their anger and handle situations more constructively. This therapeutic approach equips people with strategies to understand the root causes of their anger, develop healthier ways of expressing emotions, and improve communication skills. I utilise various techniques, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), relaxation training, and mindfulness, to guide individuals toward a more balanced and peaceful life.
8 Years Experience
Online in Nairn, Scotland (Online Only)
Anger Management
Sara Aicart-Pendlebury
Art Therapist, Human Givens Practitioner (HG.Dip.P), Member of Human Givens Institute, IFS therapist Levels 1&2, Narm Practitioner
Road rage, plane rage, even art-gallery rage (when an exhibition is too crowded) are becoming all too familiar terms and are just some of the forms that over-the-top anger can take in modern-day life. Excessive anger can have an obvious trigger or else seem to occur out of the blue; and it can ruin lives, as work and relationships suffer. Excessive anger always results from stress and essential emotional needs not being met. That’s why the human givens approach, which focuses on helping people in distress find healthy ways to meet their emotional needs, is so successful.
The ability to get angry is natural. It is part of the ancient ‘fight or flight’ survival mechanism, which evolved to help our long-distant ancestors survive when, faced with attack from wild animals or invading tribes, they either had to stand up for themselves or flee. The pulse races, adrenalin surges, breath gets fast and shallow, blood surges into the muscles of the legs and arms and the body gets flooded with stress hormones, all so that we are ready to take action if we decide to act aggressively to ward off something or someone. Once action has been taken, the feelings subside.
But, today, there are far fewer occasions when threat is as real and physical as just described. If we get frustrated or feel angry with the boss, we may have to keep those feelings to ourselves, which leaves them circulating with no obvious way of being discharged. Or we may become more and more wound up by little annoyances that build up over the day until we reach a point when, over something seemingly trifling, we snap. There are many other circumstances that can lead us to have lower tolerance for irritations – for instance, overtiredness, feeling ill or hungry, hormonal changes, chronic pain or addictive cravings.
Sometimes people have a tendency towards anger because of chronic low self-esteem, which usually stems from abuse or neglect during childhood. As adults, they may never feel good or worthy enough and tend to lash out if they perceive themselves as slighted in any way. Mild brain damage can cause a loss of impulse control and aggression. And people on the autistic spectrum are often more prone to angry outbursts because of their difficulties and frustrations in trying to relate to other people and make sense of the social world.
More often than is realised, aggression is triggered by fear and sometimes it is a long-forgotten fear. For instance, a man who, as a child, was locked in a tiny dark space under the stairs as a punishment, may lash out, seemingly inexplicably, at his wife when she wants him to check the space under their stairs for damp. This is because an ‘alarm system’ in our brain, called the amygdala, accesses our emotional memories and, on the basis of previous experience, alerts us to anything that may represent a risk. Because the stair cupboard experience was so traumatic and frightening, it stays ‘live’, causing the man to experience terror all over again, usually without knowing why. Sometimes, too, repeated and seemingly inexplicable anger outbursts stem from ‘pattern matching’ to a shocking situation in childhood, when anger was felt but, at the time, suppressed.
Fortunately, people can be helped to deal with their anger, whatever its cause. Human givens practitioners will show people how to calm themselves down quickly (this is essential, as high emotional arousal makes us stupid, stopping us from listening to reason); encourage them to take exercise (doing enjoyable physical activity is a great way to discharge accumulated stress); and help them to examine and change their self-talk – having hostile thoughts only harms us – and to look at situations from other people’s perspectives as well as their own.
Simple, effective techniques can be used to resolve anger outbursts arising from incidents in the past, so that these cease to occur in the future.
Finally, human givens practitioners will help people explore what needs are not being met in their lives, which may be fuelling anger – for instance, a lack of a sense of achievement or status or control or connection with others may cause feelings of inferiority and hostility. Experiencing uncontrollable or excessive anger always means that something is not working well in a person’s life. No one is naturally an ‘angry’ person; they are just, temporarily, overcome by anger and can learn how to cease to be its victim.
15 Years Experience
Online in Nairn, Scotland
Anger Management
John Castleford
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, FRAI
Anger management often shows itself as frustration with lack of control over external circumstances as well as passing on pressures from others. My go-to on this is coaching based on Stoicism, particularly applying insights from Marcus Aurelius (e.g: "the consequences of anger often exceed the causes of it") and Seneca, who reminds us that emotional responses are rarely rational.
16 Years Experience
Online in Nairn, Scotland
Anger Management
Jerry Ramsden
Counsellor/Therapist, (Dip.Couns)
I'm experienced in working with clients who struggle with their anger and find it difficult to regulate their emotions.
Whether the client is just irritated or absolutely raging, even been diagnosed with 'chronic anger disorder', I'm able to quickly treat the presenting issues whilst identifying the root cause.
20 Years Experience
Online in Nairn, Scotland
Anger Management
Dr Aneliya Gonsard
Psychologist, DClinPscy, MSc, BA
Anger is an integral and important emotion. I believe it to be a myth that some people do not or should not get angry. Problems arise when we have not developed a healthy relationship to this particular emotional state. If angry feeling are denied and repressed, psychological difficulties of all kinds can occur. In other instances anger comes at us and at others like a tsunami - in the form of destructive aggression - towards self and/or others.
If any of this sounds familiar and you would like to access a space where you can think and talk about it further, please get in touch.
14 Years Experience
Online in Nairn, Scotland