Relationship and Marriage Counseling therapists in Highland Park, Texas TX

Having trouble remembering what brought you together. Feeling on different pages and not sure how to realign. Desire to establish health communication patterns. Establish clear boundaries and expectations. Blending a family and feeling stuck or unsure about how to navigate these new norms. Our parenting styles are just different from each other and we're unsure how to align and unite. All of these are normal thoughts and feelings. You are not alone. Things are not hopeless and it is not too late. Together, we can establish positive communication and healthy boundaries. ​Counseling for couples and families can provide you with a safe place to improve communication patterns, heal from past traumas, and better understand each other.  

Phillip McCulley is on our team and offers marriage counseling to couples.  

Is Marriage Counseling Right For Us? Marriage counseling is not always a 911 situation. On average, most couples let a problem fester for six years before seeking therapy. Wise couples seek help before things get out of hand. At Lifeologie, we can help you navigate all aspects of romantic relationships – pre-engagement, pre-marital, married, remarried, and trying to STAY married – to help turn things around. We handle all stages of a relationship for both straight and same-gender couples: dating – how to notice the deal-breakers and what makes someone a keeper early relationship – considering moving further committed relationship – cohabitation and commitment life cycle transitions – kids coming, kids going, career changes – this all happens in the middle! blended families – remarriage and co-parenting parenting as a team late stage marital – empty nest issues, aging parents last-ditch marital – when you feel like you’ve tried everything and are just about out of gas. Topics that Marriage Counseling & Therapy can be used to address: Premarital Counseling: So, you two haven’t tied the knot yet… but there are still some kinks to work out? Premarital counseling can help you articulate your expectations for the marriage, enhance your level of intimacy, and iron out unresolved past conflicts. The Honeymoon period: When a relationship first begins, people tend to put their best foot forward. As we get more comfortable, we let the facade slip little by little. And we take off the rose-colored glasses. The moment the honeymoon ends is often also the moment couples get real. Marriage counseling can help you conquer the honesty hurdle and ease you into the next phase of your relationship. Communication & Listening: Most couples cite communication as the primary reason they seek therapy. Typically poor communication is an indicator of fragile connection. Fortunately, marriage counseling can avert unnecessary disagreements and help couples improve listening and conflict skills, leading to lasting connection. Financial Squabbles: Most married couples have shared assets and expenses: shared bank accounts, shared debt, shared obligations. Financial disagreements in marriages tend to represent power struggles in the relationship. Counseling for financial issues can help you reach a consensus about budgets and help you navigate the tricky situations that become more common as couples build a life and create a family together. Sex: Differing expectations about sex can easily become a touchy subject in most marriages. Marriage counseling can encourage couples to carve out much needed time for intimacy or empower each partner to communicate sexual desires (or lack of) in a judgment-free space. Kids: Marriage counseling can assist the two of you in getting onto the same page about discipline and ensuring an appropriate and healthy structure in the family. The marital dyad comes FIRST – a counterintuitive concept in our child-centered society. A strong marriage is the best thing couples can offer their kids. They are learning how to be married by watching you. Resentment: The longer that a relationship lasts, the more likely that resentments can take root. Resentment is the accumulation of small and seemingly trivial aggravations, culminating in lasting bitterness, loneliness and anger. Resentments can also be rooted deeply in the relationship, planted by infidelity or some other betrayal. Resentment is like taking poison and hoping the other person dies. Everyone loses. Effective marriage counseling can heal resentments and help you move forward together. Last-Ditch Marital: When you don’t know whether to call it quits or keep trudging along, crawling to the finish line. In our experience, most couples at this stage have had lots and lots of bad therapy. Be encouraged by the simple fact that you’re still trying. Good last-ditch marital therapy will focus on fresh points of view and help you tackle solvable problems together. How Can Marriage Therapy & Counseling Improve My Marriage? Effective marriage counseling can enhance the quality of your relationship by Affording you and your partner the opportunity to articulate your frustrations and expectations for the marriage – about parenting, household chores, physical intimacy, extended family, money, and a number of other issues. Rebounding successfully from the end of the honeymoon period Equipping you and your partner with tools that enable you to express disagreement more productively, without resorting to launching verbal bombs; and honing your general communication and listening skills Helping you navigate through the life cycle of a marriage – from first glance to last breath and everything in between. Recovering long-lost intimacy and putting aging resentments to rest Confronting issues—such as substance abuse, depression, chronic illness, etc.—that have altered the original dynamics of your relationship Rejuvenating relationships where both parties have tried everything… but nothing seems to work Paint won’t make a shack a load-bearing structure. Instead, focus on building a new, lasting foundation for a healthy marriage between two healthy people. Don’t give up on yourself or your relationship. Relentless focus on personal responsibility will help you and your marriage become and stay healthy.  

Polishing up communication makes everything go better in a relationship. Did you say what you think you said? Did you hear what you thought you heard?  

When working with couples, Dr. Thornhill focuses on the fostering open communication, rebuilding trust, and nurturing intimacy. She strives to help partners develop a deeper understanding of each other's needs and emotions, ultimately strengthening their bond and creating a more harmonious relationship.  

With a compassionate and empathetic approach, I help my clients navigate the intricacies of their emotions, guiding them towards self-discovery, personal growth, and improved relationship dynamics. By equipping you with practical tools and empowering insights, I aim to restore harmony, strengthen bonds, and nurture a thriving, fulfilling love life.  

I am a relationship therapist. I help couples in relationship distress. Many of the couples I work with come to therapy feeling lost in conflict cycles which they don't understand and desperately want to change. I understand how much courage it takes to reach out for help and to let another person get inside your relationship, especially when you are feeling hurt, discouraged, angry, or humiliated. If you are searching for a safe place to explore what's not working in your relationship, and support in creating solutions, please contact me. I realized early in my clinical practice that I wanted to focus on couples therapy. In addition to many hundreds of hours working with couples in distress, I have pursued training specific to couples therapy, including advanced training in both Emotion Focused Therapy and the Gottman approach. I am truly passionate about helping couples heal and flourish. Please know that no matter what you bring to couple therapy, I will meet you with compassion. I will help you explore what isn’t working in your relationships and why. We work together to understand what you want and need and to identify the changes you want to make. Together, we create solutions that work for you.  

In our practice, we prioritize assisting couples through the diverse challenges of marriage, providing personalized assistance to address issues such as communication breakdowns, conflicts over finances or parenting, and rebuilding trust after infidelity. Furthermore, we offer specialized support for individuals in polyamorous and open relationships, addressing specific concerns such as managing jealousy, negotiating agreements and boundaries, and navigating emotional dynamics between multiple partners. With compassion and practical strategies, we empower couples to overcome these hurdles and cultivate authentic connections within their unique relationship dynamics.  

Do you feel stuck in your relationship? Are you trying to recovery from infidelity or a relationship crisis? Are you ready to improve your communication, conflict management, and trust? We can work together to evaluate your relationship's strengths and areas for growth. Then, we develop a plan for me to guide you with information and tools to survive relationship stress and thrive as a team; or to move forward separately as co-parents or friends. Whether you are beginning a new relationship, working on an existing one, or trying to end one which is no longer working, I am here to support your partner and you on the journey to change.  

Whether you are facing communication, challenges, trust issues, or seeking to reignite the flame of passion, I'm here to provide a safe space for healing and growth. Through compassionate listening, evidence-based techniques, and tailored strategies, discover renewed connection, understanding, and resilience in your relationship. Embrace the opportunity to strengthen your bond, resolve conflict and build a future filled with love, trust, and mutual fulfillment.